Manicure of the Week

Doesn't every girl love Tiffany's?  Tie yourself up with these sweet nails.

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Fashion Friday: YSL Quote

For all the fuss and muss that we go through getting ready for events, and even just to go out on a daily basis, I think that there's one very important thing that we must not forget. YSL said it best...

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Manicure of the Week

This pin is proof that you can take manicure inspiration from just about anything. A beautiful lipstick case inspire these lovely nails. When getting creative and going for a unique manicure go ahead and have fun, but remember that many times less is more.  Just a couple of accent nails can make a simple manicure pop, yet still stay classy. 

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Fashion Friday: Long Live the LBD

"One is never over-dressed or underdressed with a Little Black Dress."

—  Karl Lagerfeld

Though some would say that young ladies shouldn't be seen in black unless it's for mourning, the way we see it owning a little black dress is a great equalizer.   When paired with classic style and great design it's a staple that every lady should have in their closet.    It's a simple and accessible for women of all social classes, versatile, affordable, and everything right.

An LBD can be dressed up or down, worn to a meeting or worn out on the town.  As Mrs. Simpson was fond of saying.  "When you're little black dress is right there's simply nothing else to wear in it's place."

Long live the little black dress!  Here are a couple that we love.

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Manicure of the Week

Ba Bling Ba Bling Bling...
Embellish a simple manicure with some sparkling stickers.  Cover with a clear top coat to seal in the  design. 

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Simple Tips for Texting with Class

Texting is a fantastic form of communication.  "With it you can get a message to someone without causing their phone to ring at an inopportune time, ask a friend a question and let them respond at their leisure, or just shout out a quick greeting to someone without making a big deal about it." 

However that being said, there are a few text-message etiquette tips to keep in mind, especially when sending a text message in public or on behalf of your organization.

1) Don’t Text When You Wouldn’t Call
Would you call a friend to chat while in the middle of the  night, at a meeting or on a date?  If the answer is no, then you shouldn’t be texting, either.

2) Be Careful What You Text
“Don’t text-message anything confidential, private, or potentially embarrassing.”  There is always the possibility that people can see what you are typing, especially when sitting in rows of chairs.  In some cases, sending inappropriate content is even subject to criminal charges.  A great rule is simply not to text anything that you wouldn't want your mother to see.

3) “Remember, No One Can Judge Your Tone on a Text”
…especially people who you’ve only recently met or don't see often.  They don’t know you, or your tone as well as the people you see every day.  Also, try not to overanalyze a text, don’t read too much into them.  A lot can be missed in conversations via text.   If you ever have something really important to communicate, do it the old fashioned way, in person.

4) Don’t Always Expect an Immediate Response
Remember, it’s possible the person you are texting is unavailable and won’t be able to immediately respond.  Though texting can frequently glean instant information, don't be upset if it doesn't.  The person you're texting may not be near their phone, or could be in a location that it is inappropriate for them to respond to you.

One last note!  Those of us that are responsible for the social correspondence of an organization should never text a response to a social engagement that wasn't sent to you via text to begin with.  Don't text business matters, sad news or anything that is time critical.  Thank you notes and RSVPs should always be responded to in a matter comparative to the original event.

Do you have texting tips or questions?  Leave a comment and let us know how you get it done!




Adapted from The Date Report and Emily Post

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Fashion Friday - Navy Blue Like a Duchess

We love Navy Blue, it's clean, classic and never goes out of style. Navy Blue is slimming, you can dress it up, or down, and wear it all year long.  Plus, as with many of our favorite things, you can rock it like a Duchess! 

Oh yeah... our favorite royal lady has a passion for blue and she wears it oh. so. well.

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Write On: Condolences and Get Well Cards

Though it is a sensitive subject for greetings and correspondence, we in Masonic Orders are frequently called upon to write messages of condolence and well wishes when something unpleasant has happened to those amongst our fraternity.  It often falls to the scribe, sweetheart or recorder to compose a friendly message of encouragement.



• A “Get Well” card is most often sent to the recipient’s home, unless they are going to be in the hospital for an extended period.  If someone is ill, make sure to verify the nature of their illness before sending a “Get Well” card.  If  the illness is incurable or terminal, such a card is highly inappropriate.

• A card which states “Thinking of You” is always a good choice when you are not entirely sure what the recipients condition is as well as when you know that it is terminal.   If you or your Chapter  are fairly close to the recipient of the well wishes is appropriate to ask if there is something you can do to help, even suggesting something specific, such as "Please let us know if we can help babysitting."

• When writing on behalf of an organization be sure to make it clear that is the case.  Using a phrase such as "The DeMolay Chapter keeps you in it's thoughts and prayers" signing your note with the Order's name beneath yours.

• Leave the humorous “Get Well” cards for personal friends and family.  In a business context, it is neither appropriate nor worth the risk of causing offense.

• Take the time to hand-sign and address the card. Printed mailing labels make the card look impersonal and that's not what well wishes should be.

• Even if the card has a pre-printed message inside, take the time to write a quick sentence by hand for a more personal and considerate touch.


Adapted from Cards Direct Card Etiquette
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Manicure of the Week

Polka Dot Love!
This pink on pink is subtle and sassy at the same time, plus it would be super easy to do at home.

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Sweetheart Guides: New Mexico

The Sweetheart Manual for New Mexico DeMolay is a great resource for young ladies looking for more information on the program.  It offers a set of guidelines for how a Sweetheart can show positive feelings for her Chapter and many ways to bring her closer to every DeMolay she serves. They believe that "by no means should the Sweetheart’s sole duty be to attend installations or provide refreshments" and we here at Sweetheart Social love hearing that. Kudos!

Suggestions for being a Great Sweetheart:

• Smile, a smile shows you are warm and friendly. Smiles are free and should be given often. Be sincere, talk and ask questions. If you are ever in doubt there is always someone you can ask who can give help or advice.
• Always abide by the virtues of DeMolay: Filial Love, Reverence for Sacred Things, Courtesy, Comradeship, Fidelity, Cleanness, and Patriotism.
• Offer to help the telephone committee and remind members of upcoming dates. Help with Chapter projects.
• Be polite and helpful to visiting Sweethearts and guests.
• Send get well, thank you, or birthday cards to members or advisors.
• In late March begin talking to your Master Councilor about Sweetheart elections.
• Communication!! Communication!! Communication!! It cannot be expressed enough how important communication is to your Chapter members, advisors, your state Sweetheart committee and Sweetheart Coordinator.
• Be on time! Being late makes a bad impression. Encourage your mother to accompany you to all functions and Convention. If your mother cannot attend you are responsible for having a pre-arranged chaperone.
• Dance with any DeMolay who asks you. “No” is not an option and always keep your type of dance appropriate.
• Don’t chew gum at Chapter meetings or other formal DeMolay functions. Don’t use profanity.
• Don’t travel alone.
• Don’t sit on a boy’s lap at any time or allow them to sit on yours.
• Don’t try to run the Chapter. Instead offer suggestions that might be beneficial.
• Don’t accept improper behavior from any DeMolay or Advisor. Inform the Sweetheart Coordinator or an advisor immediately.
• New Mexico DeMolay highly suggests you do not date young men within your own Chapter during your term as Chapter Sweetheart. Excessive public shows of affection are discouraged at any DeMolay event.

The Sweetheart Manual for New Mexico DeMolay can be found online and all young women seeking the position should be well versed in it's contents. 

Fashion Friday: 1950s Pink Prom Dresses

Every Sweetheart can look pretty in pink, it's just a matter of finding the right shade to go with your coloring. We found some more beautiful vintage style from the 1950s.

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