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Sweet, simple and fun this dainty nails are suitable for girls of any age and easy to do at home!

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Sweetheart Guides: Indiana State

Every organization for young girls has it's own set of standards and guidelines to help their young ladies blossom into exceptional women.  Following these guidelines helps everyone know what is expected of them, and how to best serve the organization.  The following guidelines from the Indiana DeMolay State Sweetheart Manual, they call it the "Road to Being a Great State Sweetheart".

• SMILE- Everyone likes to see a smile.
• BE YOURSELF- You were elected because they wanted YOU, not someone else.
• GET TO KNOW GUYS FROM THE STATE- they elected you. Let them know you care.
• SPEAK- They know you can talk, so say something! Train yourself to speak (without shouting) so you can be heard. Be prepared to give remarks.
• ASK QUESTIONS- If you don’t know something or are in doubt, ask!
• LISTEN- Sometimes you are needed to just be a sympathetic ear more than anything. Encourage them to talk to you... show that you care.
• VOLUNTEER- There is always something you can do. Ask!
• GET TO KNOW THE ADVISORS- They can help you a lot.
• HELP- Get involved with your State’s projects, dinners, publications, etc.
• TAKE THE LEADERSHIP CORRESPONDENCE COURSE- The first LCC must be completed by all Chapter Sweethearts and Chapter Princesses before they are eligible to run for State Sweetheart. In addition, it will make your term easier as you learn more about DeMolay’s purposes and operation. 

We think these guidelines are great for all young ladies that are participating in all sorts of organizations.  A friendly smile for everyone goes a long way to making people feel welcome and at ease.  For young ladies that are a bit shy, it's okay take your time in getting to know your local group.  With a little practice, before you know it you'll be at ease with your core members and ready to branch out to some state events!

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What Makes A Lady

Though Antebellum ideals are seldom embraced by young women today, the Southern Belle still maintains a romantic archetypal hold upon the American imagination. A young lady of breeding during the time was expected to maintain exceptional manners and high standards of self care. Though some of the exact expectations are quite outdated in the modern world, young ladies can still walk away with lessons from the customs of an earlier time. Here are a few notes on the appropriate behavior for a lady from First Lady of the South, Varina Howell Davis.
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"A lady is simply someone who cares about herself and others. She sees that her garments are clean and neatly pressed, her shoes are polished, and every button is in place. She is neat and tidy even at the breakfast table and wishes to appear well to her own family. She keeps her hair clean and well-groomed and never puts her hand to her hair to re-arrange it or search for loose pins while others can see.


A lady does not monopolize the conversation. She does not talk of herself and her own affairs but listens with well-simulated interest to a story that bores her. This is the mark of good breeding. She does not sit apart with one or two friends but makes the gentle effort to assure a good time for all with pleasant conversation. A lady does not say or do anything that will upset those around her or make them uncomfortable.

A lady does not let any man kiss her or put his arm around her unless she is engaged to be married to him, and even then she should be a little stingy with her favors.

A lady, when she brushes off her hat, does not forget to brush away the cobwebs…in her brain. She does not conclude that every man who has said something pleasant to her has fallen in love with her.

A lady is possessed of refinement, which prevents her from all fidgeting, from playing with her handkerchief, her umbrella, her purse, or whatever may be in her hands. When she sits down she remains quietly, her hands resting easily without movement and her whole figure is filled with repose. She is calm, composed, self-controlled at all times, yet there are no airs about her. These qualities are what keep her from talking and laughing loudly, and they prevent her from hurting the feelings of anyone.

A lady does not grow weary in well-doing but encourages herself by trying to live up to her ideal of a woman."

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Just a touch of pop to this pretty neutral nail.
Never be afraid to show your sparkle.

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Facebook Invites Don't Count

Yes, I did send you an invite to Facebook when I hit that "share with all" button, but even I know that's just not enough.  At best, sending out a Facebook invitation is a reminder, and should never be done before you have extended an actual invitation to an event.

A proper invitation is one of the most important elements for an event because it sets the tone and provides guests with crucial information.

Traditionally,  an invitation should go out six to eight weeks before a major event.  However if you are hosting a smaller affair, such as a chapter dinner or fun event that only a few people will be attending, two weeks is the minimum.

Invest in some lovely paper, get a real address, and take the time to send a proper invitation.  It shows your guests that you really care.