Monday, October 15, 2012
Manicure of the Week: Colors of Fall
Okay, I couldn't just pick one this week when fall is about so many wonderful colors! So tell me, how will you let your fall colors shine?
Monday, October 8, 2012
Manicure of the Week: Fall Gold
Match these pretty fall nails with a cream colored fisherman's sweater and you're looking fabulous for some Autumn fun.
Friday, October 5, 2012
Fashion Friday: Fall Dress & Swing Coat
I am so in love with this gorgeous simple retro-chic business look. The skirt could be an inch shorter, but really, I don't know a girl who wouldn't look lovely and lady like in this outfit. Just, don't look at the price tag. The shoes alone would take my whole paycheck.
Monday, October 1, 2012
Manicure of the Week: One White Heart
This is so subtle and classy I think it would be stylish anywhere, and you don't have to have super long nails to pull it off either!
Friday, September 28, 2012
Fashion Friday - Fall Looks
Fall has descended where I am and the night are getting quite cool. The fashionable girl looks great indoors and out. Here's a quick look at some of my favorite fall looks to combat the chill if you're headed to a meeting, a football game, or even out apple picking!
Monday, September 24, 2012
Saturday, September 22, 2012
How Much to Serve at A Party
I so love this! It can be so hard to decided how much food to make and serve for refreshment hour after our DeMolay Chapter meetings. This pretty little infographic from Chickabug is going to help me make sure that everyone gets fed without worrying about bringing home left overs.
Adorable and Useful! How can you go wrong?
Adorable and Useful! How can you go wrong?
Monday, September 17, 2012
Monday, September 10, 2012
Manicure of the Week
French tips are always a smart, classic choice for your manicure and this fun but subtle twist is Sweetheart fabulous!
Friday, September 7, 2012
Monday, September 3, 2012
Manicure of the Week
Celebrate Labor Day with these patriotic nails!
This manicure combines some holiday sparkle and fun with a clean classic look. It's a great example of adding some interest to your nails without going overboard.
This manicure combines some holiday sparkle and fun with a clean classic look. It's a great example of adding some interest to your nails without going overboard.
Sunday, September 2, 2012
American Flag Etiquette
Whenever the flag passes by, as in a parade, U.S. citizens pay it their respects by standing at attention and placing the right hand over the heart. Men remove their hats and hold them, in their right hands, over their hearts. This rule also applies to women wearing sports caps. Hats and tiaras of other sorts should remain upon a lady's head.
While citizens of other countries are not expected to salute the U.S. flag, sing our national anthem, or recite the Pledge of Allegiance, it is respectful for them to stand quietly while the flag passes, the anthem is sung, or the pledge is recited.
The Pledge of Allegiance and the National Anthem
Congressional Act 36 USC 301 addresses the behavoir of all US Citizens during the pledge of allegiance and the national anthem. When saying the pledge of allegiance, people of all ages are expected to stand at attention, face the flag, and salute by placing the right hand over the heart. Men should remove their hats, and women any sports caps.
Everyone, even very young children, should rise, remain standing, and salute by placing the right hand over the heart during the playing of The Star-Spangled Banner—first note to last. It's ok if you don't sing, with it's extreme range the anthem isn't easy to sing. However, if you chose not join in song you must stand quietly until "O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave" has rung out and the music ends.
According to Section 8d of the United States Flag Code, it is prohibited to wear the flag as an article of clothing. You should not wear the flag in any form of clothing. That means a shirt styled to look like the flag, or having a flag print, or to be styled as if made from a flag. It is considered very disrespectful as the clothes encounter daily wear, stains and are then eventually thrown away.
If you must wear a flag of some sort, wear a flag pin or broach. Such a jewel bearing the likeness of the U.S. flag should only be worn on the left lapel.
Adapted From Emily Post and The Flag Code: Proper Flag Etiquette
Monday, August 27, 2012
Friday, August 24, 2012
Fashion Friday: YSL Quote
For all the fuss and muss that we go through getting ready for events, and even just to go out on a daily basis, I think that there's one very important thing that we must not forget. YSL said it best...
Monday, August 20, 2012
Manicure of the Week
This pin is proof that you can take manicure inspiration from just about anything. A beautiful lipstick case inspire these lovely nails. When getting creative and going for a unique manicure go ahead and have fun, but remember that many times less is more. Just a couple of accent nails can make a simple manicure pop, yet still stay classy.
Friday, August 17, 2012
Fashion Friday: Long Live the LBD
"One is never over-dressed or underdressed with a Little Black Dress."
— Karl Lagerfeld
Though some would say that young ladies shouldn't be seen in black unless it's for mourning, the way we see it owning a little black dress is a great equalizer. When paired with classic style and great design it's a staple that every lady should have in their closet. It's a simple and accessible for women of all social classes, versatile, affordable, and everything right.
An LBD can be dressed up or down, worn to a meeting or worn out on the town. As Mrs. Simpson was fond of saying. "When you're little black dress is right there's simply nothing else to wear in it's place."
Long live the little black dress! Here are a couple that we love.
Monday, August 13, 2012
Manicure of the Week
Ba Bling Ba Bling Bling...
Embellish a simple manicure with some sparkling stickers. Cover with a clear top coat to seal in the design.
Embellish a simple manicure with some sparkling stickers. Cover with a clear top coat to seal in the design.
Sunday, August 12, 2012
Simple Tips for Texting with Class
However that being said, there are a few text-message etiquette tips to keep in mind, especially when sending a text message in public or on behalf of your organization.
1) Don’t Text When You Wouldn’t Call
Would you call a friend to chat while in the middle of the night, at a meeting or on a date? If the answer is no, then you shouldn’t be texting, either.
2) Be Careful What You Text
“Don’t text-message anything confidential, private, or potentially embarrassing.” There is always the possibility that people can see what you are typing, especially when sitting in rows of chairs. In some cases, sending inappropriate content is even subject to criminal charges. A great rule is simply not to text anything that you wouldn't want your mother to see.
3) “Remember, No One Can Judge Your Tone on a Text”
…especially people who you’ve only recently met or don't see often. They don’t know you, or your tone as well as the people you see every day. Also, try not to overanalyze a text, don’t read too much into them. A lot can be missed in conversations via text. If you ever have something really important to communicate, do it the old fashioned way, in person.
4) Don’t Always Expect an Immediate Response
Remember, it’s possible the person you are texting is unavailable and won’t be able to immediately respond. Though texting can frequently glean instant information, don't be upset if it doesn't. The person you're texting may not be near their phone, or could be in a location that it is inappropriate for them to respond to you.
One last note! Those of us that are responsible for the social correspondence of an organization should never text a response to a social engagement that wasn't sent to you via text to begin with. Don't text business matters, sad news or anything that is time critical. Thank you notes and RSVPs should always be responded to in a matter comparative to the original event.
Do you have texting tips or questions? Leave a comment and let us know how you get it done!
Adapted from The Date Report and Emily Post
Friday, August 10, 2012
Fashion Friday - Navy Blue Like a Duchess
We love Navy Blue, it's clean, classic and never goes out of style. Navy Blue is slimming, you can dress it up, or down, and wear it all year long. Plus, as with many of our favorite things, you can rock it like a Duchess!
Oh yeah... our favorite royal lady has a passion for blue and she wears it oh. so. well.
Oh yeah... our favorite royal lady has a passion for blue and she wears it oh. so. well.
Wednesday, August 8, 2012
Write On: Condolences and Get Well Cards
Though it is a sensitive subject for greetings and correspondence, we in Masonic Orders are frequently called upon to write messages of condolence and well wishes when something unpleasant has happened to those amongst our fraternity. It often falls to the scribe, sweetheart or recorder to compose a friendly message of encouragement.
• A “Get Well” card is most often sent to the recipient’s home, unless they are going to be in the hospital for an extended period. If someone is ill, make sure to verify the nature of their illness before sending a “Get Well” card. If the illness is incurable or terminal, such a card is highly inappropriate.
• A card which states “Thinking of You” is always a good choice when you are not entirely sure what the recipients condition is as well as when you know that it is terminal. If you or your Chapter are fairly close to the recipient of the well wishes is appropriate to ask if there is something you can do to help, even suggesting something specific, such as "Please let us know if we can help babysitting."
• When writing on behalf of an organization be sure to make it clear that is the case. Using a phrase such as "The DeMolay Chapter keeps you in it's thoughts and prayers" signing your note with the Order's name beneath yours.
• Leave the humorous “Get Well” cards for personal friends and family. In a business context, it is neither appropriate nor worth the risk of causing offense.
• Take the time to hand-sign and address the card. Printed mailing labels make the card look impersonal and that's not what well wishes should be.
• Even if the card has a pre-printed message inside, take the time to write a quick sentence by hand for a more personal and considerate touch.
Adapted from Cards Direct Card Etiquette
Image Source: stampwithheather.typepad.com via Hilary on Pinterest
Monday, August 6, 2012
Manicure of the Week
Polka Dot Love!
This pink on pink is subtle and sassy at the same time, plus it would be super easy to do at home.
This pink on pink is subtle and sassy at the same time, plus it would be super easy to do at home.
Sunday, August 5, 2012
Sweetheart Guides: New Mexico
The Sweetheart Manual for New Mexico DeMolay is a great resource for young ladies looking for more information on the program. It offers a set of guidelines for how a Sweetheart can show positive feelings for her Chapter and many ways to bring her closer to every DeMolay she serves. They believe that "by no means should the Sweetheart’s sole duty be to attend installations or provide refreshments" and we here at Sweetheart Social love hearing that. Kudos!Suggestions for being a Great Sweetheart:
- Smile, a smile shows you are warm and friendly. Smiles are free and should be given often. Be sincere, talk and ask questions. If you are ever in doubt there is always someone you can ask who can give help or advice.
- Always abide by the virtues of DeMolay: Filial Love, Reverence for Sacred Things, Courtesy, Comradeship, Fidelity, Cleanness, and Patriotism.
- Offer to help the telephone committee and remind members of upcoming dates. Help with Chapter projects.
- Be polite and helpful to visiting Sweethearts and guests.
- Send get well, thank you, or birthday cards to members or advisors.
- In late March begin talking to your Master Councilor about Sweetheart elections.
- Communication!! Communication!! Communication!! It cannot be expressed enough how important communication is to your Chapter members, advisors, your state Sweetheart committee and Sweetheart Coordinator.
- Be on time! Being late makes a bad impression. Encourage your mother to accompany you to all functions and Convention. If your mother cannot attend you are responsible for having a pre-arranged chaperone.
- Dance with any DeMolay who asks you. “No” is not an option and always keep your type of dance appropriate.
- Don’t chew gum at Chapter meetings or other formal DeMolay functions. Don’t use profanity.
- Don’t travel alone.
- Don’t sit on a boy’s lap at any time or allow them to sit on yours.
- Don’t try to run the Chapter. Instead offer suggestions that might be beneficial.
- Don’t accept improper behavior from any DeMolay or Advisor. Inform the Sweetheart Coordinator or an advisor immediately.
- New Mexico DeMolay highly suggests you do not date young men within your own Chapter during your term as Chapter Sweetheart. Excessive public shows of affection are discouraged at any DeMolay event.
Friday, August 3, 2012
Fashion Friday: 1950s Pink Prom Dresses
Every Sweetheart can look pretty in pink, it's just a matter of finding the right shade to go with your coloring. We found some more beautiful vintage style from the 1950s.
Visit our 'My Style' Board on Pinterest for more fabulous formals!
Visit our 'My Style' Board on Pinterest for more fabulous formals!
Monday, July 30, 2012
Sunday, July 29, 2012
The Hostess Gift
It is customary in some jurisdictions for presentations of elaborate gifts to be given from one organization to another at the end of significant business. If a gift of this sort is being presented from the organization you are representing, it is unnecessary to go to the additional expense of a personal gift.
What to Give
Books or Bookmarks, CDs, personal organizers, fruit baskets, candles, picture frames, small floral arrangements, boxes of chocolate or other favorite treats are always a lovely way to recognize your hostess. It's best to keep the gift simple and relatively inexpensive.
Overnight stay in a Private Home
When using someone's home to stay in a gift is mandatory. The longer the stay, the more expensive or elaborate the gift should be. For example, for a weekend stay, you may decide to send flowers or bring a basket of fruit and muffins. If you’ve stayed for three nights or more, a gift certificate to the hostess’s favorite spa or restaurant would be appropriate.
Should you send something if you're not attending?
There’s no need to send a gift to a host or hostess if you’re not attending the event.
Adapted from Emily Post
Source: bakerella.com via Anjali on Pinterest
Friday, July 27, 2012
Fashion Friday: Duchess Catherine Evening Gowns
Duchess Catherine is quickly becoming modern fashion icon. Her clothes are always young and stylish, yet modest enough for just about any young lady to wear. Long, thin, and flowy Kate seems right at home in an elegant chiffon evening gown proving that you can be stunning without having to sport a ball-gown shape. Here are just a couple of our favorites.
Monday, July 23, 2012
Manicure of the Week
Tuxedo nails for a formal affair, just a touch of sparkle, we love this cute manicure!
Sunday, July 22, 2012
Table Manner Tips for Teens
"Etiquette is all about learning proper social skills from how to make first impressions in interviews and during social events, to graceful dining habits that are vital signposts to success in today's very competitive business environment, " says Fiona Cameron-Williams, International Protocol Consultant to the United Nations International School in Queens, NY.
Ms. Cameron-Williams believes that table manners play an important part in making a favorable impression, be it at a business meeting, on a first date, or during a social gathering. "They are visible signals of the state of our manners and therefore are essential to personal and professional success," she continues, "The point of etiquette rules is to make you feel comfortable - not uncomfortable."
For those of us in the world of Masonic Youth, year end banquets and formal dinner parties can be the norm. Though efforts are always made after a business meeting to relax and have fun, it's important that we practice the basics of good manners at the table so that we can put forth a good impression. The following table manner tips for teens are provided by Ms. Cameron-Williams during her Teen Etiquette and UN International School Etiquette Courses:
Simple table manners:
- Pass food from the left to the right. Do not stretch across the table, crossing other guests, to reach food or condiments.
- If asked for the salt or pepper, pass both together, even if a table mate asks for only one of them. This is so dinner guests won't have to search for orphaned shakers.
- Set any passed item, whether it's the salt and pepper shakers, a bread basket, or a butter plate, directly on the table instead of passing hand-to-hand.
- Never intercept a pass. Snagging a roll out of the breadbasket or taking a shake of salt when it is en route to someone else is a no-no.
- Always use serving utensils to serve yourself, not your personal silverware.
In a restaurant:
- As soon as you are seated, remove the napkin from your place setting, unfold it, and put it in your lap. Do not shake it open. At some very formal restaurants, the waiter may do this for the diners, but it is not inappropriate to place your own napkin in your lap, even when this is the case.
- The napkin rests on the lap till the end of the meal. Don't clean the cutlery or wipe your face with the napkin. NEVER use it to wipe your nose!
- If you excuse yourself from the table, loosely fold the napkin and place it to the left or right of your plate. Do not refold your napkin or wad it up on the table either. Never place your napkin on your chair.
- At the end of the meal, leave the napkin semi-folded at the left side of the place setting. It should not be crumpled or twisted; nor should it be folded. The napkin must also not be left on the chair.
At a private dinner party:
- The meal begins when the host or hostess unfolds his or her napkin. This is your signal to do the same. Place your napkin on your lap, completely unfolded if it is a small luncheon napkin or in half, lengthwise, if it is a large dinner napkin. Do not shake it open.
- The napkin rests on the lap till the end of the meal.
- The host will signal the end of the meal by placing his or her napkin on the table. Once the meal is over, you too should place your napkin neatly on the table to the left of your dinner plate. (Do not refold your napkin, but don't wad it up, either.)
Friday, July 20, 2012
Fashion Friday: Tiara Tips
Tiara Tips:
Since chances are you will just get this one tiara to commemorate your term in office, be sure to chose something that will look nice with all of your gowns. We here at Sweetheart Social are partial to Sweetheart Tiaras that actually incorporate a heart shape.
What sort of dresses do you tend to wear? More modern dresses look best with modern tiaras. But if you tend to wear vintage style gowns you can continue to express that look with a more antique style headpiece.
Keep in mind that a rhinestone tiara and no pearls, will match any gown style. If you chose to wear a tiara that incorporates pearls, make sure the shade of pearls in your tiara and the ones in your accessories are always a perfect match.
If you have short hair you will want to decide on a lighter, more delicate tiara that won't require lots of pinning to hold it in place
Pick a Tiara that Compliments Your Face:
- Round or Full: Choose a tiara with some height or one that has a peak, this will make your face appear longer and create balance.
- Oval or Long: Choose a tiara with little or no height that extends over your head from one side to the other at an even height or a thinner headband style tiara. Avoid tiaras with a peak at the top, which will make your face appear longer.
A Couple Spots to Shop for Tiaras:
We hope that you've enjoyed this very brief set of tips for picking a personal tiara. If you love tiaras as much as we do you might enjoy visiting The Royal Order of Sartorial Splendor for Tiara Thursday! It's a great spot for a tiara loving, royal watching gal to get some fashion inspiration and have some fun.
Monday, July 16, 2012
Manicure of the Week
I love this! Hello Kitty is so sweet and fun! Young ladies being installed into offices where they have had to pick a theme or symbol could easily adapt this idea of the french manicure and accept nail. Simply have your accent nail match your theme!
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