Sweetheart Guides: Indiana State

Every organization for young girls has it's own set of standards and guidelines to help their young ladies blossom into exceptional women.  Following these guidelines helps everyone know what is expected of them, and how to best serve the organization.  The following guidelines from the Indiana DeMolay State Sweetheart Manual, they call it the "Road to Being a Great State Sweetheart".

• SMILE- Everyone likes to see a smile.
• BE YOURSELF- You were elected because they wanted YOU, not someone else.
• GET TO KNOW GUYS FROM THE STATE- they elected you. Let them know you care.
• SPEAK- They know you can talk, so say something! Train yourself to speak (without shouting) so you can be heard. Be prepared to give remarks.
• ASK QUESTIONS- If you don’t know something or are in doubt, ask!
• LISTEN- Sometimes you are needed to just be a sympathetic ear more than anything. Encourage them to talk to you... show that you care.
• VOLUNTEER- There is always something you can do. Ask!
• GET TO KNOW THE ADVISORS- They can help you a lot.
• HELP- Get involved with your State’s projects, dinners, publications, etc.
• TAKE THE LEADERSHIP CORRESPONDENCE COURSE- The first LCC must be completed by all Chapter Sweethearts and Chapter Princesses before they are eligible to run for State Sweetheart. In addition, it will make your term easier as you learn more about DeMolay’s purposes and operation. 

We think these guidelines are great for all young ladies that are participating in all sorts of organizations.  A friendly smile for everyone goes a long way to making people feel welcome and at ease.  For young ladies that are a bit shy, it's okay take your time in getting to know your local group.  With a little practice, before you know it you'll be at ease with your core members and ready to branch out to some state events!